Thoughts on the State of War
We have traded our World War II
veterans for Korean War veterans for Vietnam vets for Afghanistan/Iraq vets,
but still the question of war remains.
The issues of the impact of these wars on the people who fight in them,
the physical and emotional toil that these wars have had on these men and women
and their families, still remain and very little progress has been made on how
to handle these things. People put
ribbons on their cars and stickers that profess support, but when concerns are
actually brought up, people turn a blind eye.
When a homeless man who has lost his limbs or his sanity or both
approaches us, we turn away and pretend not to see him. When a woman lies dying of cancer in a bed
with only her husband to weep over her withering form, the rest of us discuss
how evil, however it is defined at the time, must be eliminated from the
world. But nothing is done. No help is provided. These people still suffer from the actions of
a nation, the decisions of a few, while the rest of us support those decisions
blindly and without question. And if we
question? Our love of God and country
are attacked, as if either would support the blind slaughter of innocent
strangers or the harmful effects on those that would sacrifice for their
beliefs. As we stand on the brink of yet
another war, one which pits the citizens of a nation against their ruler, one
which the people use guns against the horrors of bombs and chemical weapons,
the true cost of war crosses my mind.
I am reminded of my own first
experience with war. I am no soldier; I
never have been, and I probably never will be.
I will likely never face the life and death situations which so many of
my fellow countrymen do unless I am attacked on the safe streets of my own home
town. But I remember when this nation
went to war against Iraq for the first time.
I was a child, in my first year of high school when the bombs were first
dropped, when the missiles streaked across the night sky like streamers at a
celebration, like fireworks remembering the birth of a nation. But they did not carry the joy of those
moments; instead, they carried the horror of death that I understood even
then. I remember the fear that gripped
me as I watched the news broadcast that I had abhorred up until that moment,
dreading the boring hourly broadcasts that my parents insisted on watching that
kept me from my preferred cartoons or sitcoms that were popular that year. I remember wondering if it was the end, the
total destruction of life as I knew it.
In a way, it was. It was the end
of my innocence as war, which all of the adults that I knew were aware of,
crept into my mind. Not the war that
came in cartoons or movies, but real war starring people that I did not know,
whose special effects were the real thing.
I remember standing in the hallway as the missiles flew through the air
at cities, lighting them up in spectacular colors and explosions. I remember seeing the same scene in night
vision, the green making the events more visible and more terrifying. I remember going to church later, and finding
out that one of those stars in the unfolding drama was a person I knew, his
wife left behind with only her grief to comfort her. She never was able to say goodbye, to kiss
her husband one last time, to make love to him or yell at him or hold his hand
or complain about shopping for clothes or games or cars or appliances. It was only her, and I was aware of that.
My second experience with war came
much later. I was an adult, having
finished high school and a matching number of years in college. I had learned much in that time. I had learned the events of the past, I had
learned how to craft sentences, I had learned how to edit and shape the written
word, and I had learned how to tell a story.
I had learned the closeness of friends and the betrayal of lovers. I had learned how to hide who I was and how
to enjoy who I was. But I had forgotten
about the horrors of war, the first terrifying moment of war as seen on
television. I was reminded by the violent
attacks in New York City, watching as planes were flown into three buildings
and a field. I was stunned, shocked,
reverted back to the child watching horrific events on television. But I was older, and I had to hide my fear so
that I could comfort others around me.
The day was spent dividing my attention between those that needed me,
explaining the unknowable, and keeping up with the constant stream of
information that said nothing new. This
day, as before, ended in the same church as before where I was finally able to
relieve the fear and sadness and anger that had burned inside me since nine
o’clock, the time that I was reminded of the horrors of war.
I have spent the next eleven years
debating the conflicts that we have become involved in. My anger has changed from those who attacked
my country to those in this country who have attacked another. I have debated, listened, yelled, been
humbled, forgotten, and been enraged by the war that has not ended. I have seen people I love go to war, joining
the conflict between nations that was begun by the actions of a few. I have seen atrocities committed by both
sides in the name of what is right. And
I am forced to ask, what is right?
A new conflict is about to break
out, as it always is. Another war in
which our family and friends and ourselves will become embroiled in. Why?
Why must people die, why must destruction occur, why must pain be
inflicted just so it can start again? I
know we have to respond, but why is there anything to respond to? I know that they are responding to something
else, but why is there anything to respond to?
The questions are endless, but the answers seem quite limited, and none
of them are satisfactory or lasting. It
is easy to think of the anger, the need to lash out in retaliation or to
protect or to anticipate. But sometimes
people forget about the young boy who watches the bombs on television, dreading
what the future holds. They forget about
the newly crowned adult who has to balance his own emotions against the
emotions of those around him. They
forget about the homeless man who has lost everything he ever had, including
himself. They forget about the woman who
is dying of cancer and is about to lose her life.